thoughts of the day

it's been sometime since i pour out my feelings to a blog.
mostly are just everyday activities and in the past almsot everyday i would talk mostly about my feelings and all those stuffs,
kinda random huh?

sometimes i wonder if ranting is a place to show how you feel? or leak out some lil' secret or what does it even helps for.

it's been a long time since i last had this weird feelings in me that suddenly came back.
in a relationship, or rather with someone you love, is pride a very important thing?
mostly it's guys who have that kind of MCP (male chunvinist pig) character.
somehow, girls do want to save their own face.
but to those people who doesn't have any pride in them are people who are willing to go all out in a relationship, for someone they truly love.
thsoe are the people we can envy, for putting aside their face.
and not borthering so much in what others has to say.

in first impression, we can never stop bitching about others and our mind will just be like, this person sure ain't decent. but still, it's till you really know someone well then that's when you can say how you judge a person.

gossips - the inevitable thing that everyone just can never avoid for all ages.

how does things even works out in a relationship after some time?
it's not about quarrelling and to see whose the one in the right or in the wrong and keep fending for yourself that it wasn't even your fault.
it's about compromising and giving in to each other wants and needs and understanding each other to a more higher level.
to understand someone might take a pretty long time, not to mention to prefectly know someone well.
it's best to draw a line between seriousness and jokes.
certain things has got its limitations.
and a couple's feelings are much more sensitive to just the plain usual friends.

once in awhile, its good to sit down and just have a good talk with your other half.
it can be about anything under the sky.
your likes, your dislikes, your agreements and disagreements.
even no matter how different we can be in character and thoughts, one will still get to know each other better and what ever to say and not to say to avoid the other party from being hurt?
it's just about accepting the other half for who they are. ACCEPTANCE.
and not trying to ask them to change but unless in certain things that has gone way out of hand then talking it out will be a better way.

people say, 2 people who are not similar in any way will turn out better in a relationship.
because, you have more to learn from opposite parties, everything is just different.
then what about in thoughts and having the same sentiments.

i have many questions in mind and no answers to it yet.
all i can do is ask for people's opinions in what they think.
who will be the one to lead me to the right answers?

certain books really do help, especially one that has to do with self-help.
it will definitely change your thinking to a higher stage of maturity.
of course, everyone has got their playful sight no matter how old are they.
like how much your dad still loves to joke around.

i might wana get 5 signs of love languages or maybe 5 people you meet in heaven.

the many qns to my mind, pls. gimme an ans for it.
i forever so curious.
cos i wana be on the right path soon enough :)
its takes time for people to mature. that i have to understand.

and one thing i've learnt in my past relationship,
when i've things planned for the future and i make sure that it has to happened.
for example it could be outings and all, but each time it had been turned down.
i would get freaking pissed off but lucky, i calm down quickly and just let things be each and every single time this happens.
i've leant that, not everything will go in your way, sometimes letting how things be will be a better way out.
at the end of the day, just close your eyes and the next day will be a better day.

i wana see actions more than words.
time for my nap after so much in thoughts. :)