Life

gimme that feeling of love and anxiousness back into my life again!

the drama i watched just now.

tells me a story.

a story i should learnt.

2 rings being proposed to a girl.
one is from a rich rich guy, a 10-carat diamond.
and the other, a guy who has been travelling around the world for the girl.
and he got her a little something.
its a no brand little ring with a top like in a ribbon-shaped.
its not the ring that matters, but the sincerity in trying to find the right ring for her that he has been traveling around.

till then, i realised.

certain rings brought a couple together, through god's will and fate.

i did rather travel around the world, find a random ring that we both loved.
it ain't costly but its the one and only ring of that design.

rather than choosing a ring that has a 10-carat diamond but it has many duplications of that kind.

so after all, is the gold ring an expensive one? i doubt so.
it's been caught by 2 people, in the heart.

got this from a blog.

Chad Eastman wrote in his book The Truth About Guys, "More than 96% of high school relationships don't last, including the ones that were 'absolutely going to be together forever.' ... The truth is, you will probably date several guys/girls before you get married, so treat each relationship that comes along as a learning experience & of course, to learn from each relationship. (If you can get into a dozen relationships in a year & yet not have a clue what have you gained from each experience, you can be 100% sure you are scaring the right person away.) Don't look at every relationship as if you are going to wind up getting married. Most importantly, don't get too involved into talking about the future. Deal with the facts before you let your feelings take over. Go into a relationship to have fun and make a good friend. Nothing more. If, by some extremely small percentage, things should progress into marriage, they will. Don't rush just because you give yourself an excuse that you are young & you can't think rationally.

We are all still growing up. And we do not have the slightest fucking clue as to what type of person we are going to marry because we have hardly begun to discover what type of person we're going to ultimately mature into. The point of teenager-datings is not to find our "soul mate"(or maybe it is, i don't know); but it is to test out the complimentary as well as unfavorable characteristics in people that will assist us in eventually finding "the one."

"I stopped asking my boyfriend about the future when I come to realize it is futile to even talk about it because the worst thing happens when expectations build up and he doesn't make good with his promises, you point all 10 fingers at him, put him down with the most horrible things you can mention, damage his pride & ruin a perfectly fine relationship. So I am enjoying myself to the fullest with him. Because for all I know, he might be the one whom is going to give me the happiest moments in my entire life."